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5 Mistakes NOT to Make After a Breakup
“5 Mistakes NOT to Make after a Breakup”
by Amy Waterman
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5 Mistakes NOT to Make After a Breakup
Contents
You’ve Just Broken Up – What’s Next? ..........................................................................4
Major Breakup Mistake #1:
Hating Him for Breaking Up with You.
...............................6
Major Breakup Mistake #2:
Throwing a Tantrum
...........................................................9
Major Breakup Mistake #3:
Pestering Him to Change His Mind
..................................11
Major Breakup Mistake #4:
Punishing Him
.................................................................12
Major Breakup Mistake #5:
Making Yourself Sick Over It
............................................13
Here’s What You Need to Do Next..............................................................................14
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5 Mistakes NOT to Make After a Breakup
You’ve Just Broken Up – What’s Next?
Breakups suck.
Especially if you’re the one being broken up with.
The first feeling that hits is one of panic and shock. Time freezes. You can’t believe that
this is happening.
Emotional turmoil clouds your thinking, and in the confusion you say things that you won’t
remember later. You argue with him, defend the relationship, attack him for not being
perfect either, and plead with him to give it another chance.
But nothing – not even hearing you sobbing – can change his mind.
It’s enough to break your heart. How can a man walk away when he told you such
beautiful things? Was everything just a lie? Was he just using you the entire time?
I want you to stop right here and listen to what I have to say.
You may believe that any man who could treat a woman this way is a cold, callous,
unfeeling jerk. If he
really
loved you like he said he did, he wouldn’t be able to walk
away.
But you’d be wrong.
Breaking up with a woman does not make a man a jerk.
Breaking up with
you
does not make him a horrible person.
If you hate him for breaking up with you, you will only make it impossible for you to be
friends (let alone lovers) ever again.
In this Special Report, I’m going to explain 5 Major Breakup Mistakes that will jeopardize
– if not end – any possibility of getting back together with your ex.
Right now, you may not think that you will EVER want to get back with anyone who could
have hurt you so badly, but
don’t be so sure.
I get emails all the time from women who say that breaking up was the worst thing to ever
have happened to them. It was all a horrible mistake. They just want to have their partner
back, so that everything can go back to the way it was.
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5 Mistakes NOT to Make After a Breakup
You cannot erase a breakup.
No matter how painful it was, no matter what ugly things
were said, it won’t all vanish into thin air the moment you get back together.
That’s why it’s so important that you deal with a breakup
responsibly.
Don’t lash out like
an angry child. Don’t compromise your integrity by begging or pleading. Don’t use guilt,
shame, or jealousy as leverage to get him to cave in to your demands.
Instead, maintain your poise at all times. Show him your strength, maturity, and
compassion. If he wants to go, let him go with love. Then see how surprised he is.
A man has no idea how to react to a woman who doesn’t do what he expects. Every other
woman your ex has broken up with has probably reacted in the same ways: by throwing
a tantrum, begging or pleading, or attacking him. He probably expected you to do the
same.
But instead YOU are the emotionally calm one. You’re letting him go with grace rather
than holding on with anger. Even more strangely, you are actually
allowing
him to break
up with you. What’s the deal here?
Your behavior will confuse him so much that he won’t be able to get you off his mind.
He’ll start wondering if he really did misjudge you that completely. He’ll even start to
wonder if he made a mistake by breaking up with you.
This
is your goal.
Otherwise, if you behave like he expects – by yelling at him, trying to argue back, crying
and laying a guilt trip on him – you’ll only make him feel better about breaking up with
you … and he’ll walk away feeling relieved to be free from such a manipulative, hysterical
person.
I hope I’ve made it clear that it is absolutely
crucial
that you deal with a breakup
appropriately, if you want any chance of him missing you and wanting to get back together
with you.
If you want a failsafe plan guaranteed to give you the absolute best chance of getting back
together with your ex, then I recommend
2
nd
Chance: How to Win Back the Love of Your
Ex!
I wrote it with Mirabelle Summers to teach women exactly what they should do, step
by step, to deal with the emotional impact of a breakup and heal their hearts so that they
can get a second chance with the love of their life.
But let’s get back to what you need to know NOW so that you don’t make any major
breakup mistakes.
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