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Module 2 - Mastering The 10 Female Attraction Triggers

Silverback Seduction System

Module 2 - Mastering The 10 Female Attraction Triggers

Hey guys, it’s Shane Stanfield. Today we are going to cover the Ten Attraction

Triggers in detail.

First, let’s define what attraction triggers are and why they are so important.

Attraction triggers are characteristics you display that women are seeking in men.

Let’s be clear, these have nothing to do with physical appearance, anyone can

display these characteristics.

If you were to ask women what physical traits they look for, the majority will tell

you tall, dark, and handsome. I am 5’7” with red hair, that my friends is far from tall

dark and handsome.

Good looks are an advantage but do not give you good game with women. I have

met many good-looking guys that got lots of attention in the bar but couldn’t close

the deal or even land a date because they were poor communicators and had bad

sub-texts.

Look, if you aren’t blessed with model looks, don’t worry it just means you have to

work a little harder. With the attraction triggers I am going to cover in detail, you

will already be ahead of 90% of all men when it comes to attracting women. Be

thankful that women look for traits such as humor, protection, leadership and

others rather than looks, or few of us would get laid.

If you need proof just look around, you will see many gorgeous women with not

good looking men that I used to label were dating beyond their looks. I used to

make excuses about this thinking the women were shallow and the guy probably

just had money. Sure, in some cases that is true, but now I know most of these

relationships work because the man displays the attraction triggers I am going to

tell you about.

Why are Attraction Triggers so important? Given you and the woman you are

Advancing on know nothing about each other, you need every tool available to

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escalate the interaction. Remember women are extremely intuitive and emotional

creatures, and will make snap judgments in the first few seconds (especially when it

comes to attraction).

Before I begin covering the specific attraction triggers, let’s talk about the

difference between memorizing them and internalizing them. Women are

extremely intuitive and can sense a bullshitter so this is really important. The

attraction triggers need to be internalized meaning they must become part of your

behavior.

This will take time, but not as much as you think. I am betting you already posses

at least a few of these attraction triggers if not the majority. I am also betting you

don’t display them to women properly, but don’t worry we will fix that. Awareness

is the first step on the way to internalizing. Once these attraction triggers are

internalized, you will see the difference when you meet women, and it will be

immediate.

Alright so let’s get into the attraction triggers. The first one is Being the leader of

the troop. Look, women love men who are leaders. Now pay attention, you have

to demonstrate this in a subtle way. There are a few things women can’t stand and

one of them is bragging about your money, or how much people respect you.

Being the leader of the troop means showing a woman you have the strength of

character needed to inspire others to follow you. The best way to display leader of

the troop qualities is to use strong, but comfortable body language. Be a man who

takes up space, walks slowly, speaks clearly and with pauses.

We will cover body language in detail later but for now be aware that body

language will help you with women. Another way to convey this attraction trigger

is to embed being the leader of the troop through storytelling.

It is important to use real stories of your life where you took charge of a chaotic

situation and led them out of danger or it could have been that you were on the

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brink of bankruptcy but believed in your employees so you took out a second

mortgage so you didn’t lay anyone off.

So why is it so important for the Silverback to establish his territory? It's full of

subtext. I cannot over-emphasize the importance of subtext in all relationships,

particularly with women. Subtext is actually a literary term that refers to the

underlying or implicit meaning in a novel or story.

But subtext exists on all social levels, too. When you establish your territory, the

subtext is: THIS IS MY SPACE. BACK OFF. 99 times out of 100, the other males will

back off.

Further subtext: You have effectively demonstrated to every woman in the room

that you are the strong Leader of the Troop. Just try it, and tell me if you don't

notice an immediate difference in the way people act around you.

The second attraction trigger is being the protector of the troop. Why do you think

most women like men in uniform? Simply put it is because they are protecting

people. If you have an occupation where you wear a uniform and your aren’t

letting women know in subtle ways, you are making a huge mistake by leaving this

attractive quality uknown.

If you are a desk jockey or some other occupation that doesn’t display the leader of

the troop attraction trigger don’t worry, there are other ways to display this. One

would be to literally protect your woman from a Blackback that is harassing her.

You can simply give him a firm slap on the back and tell him, “have a nice night”

and turn your back to him as to dismiss him from the group.

I do not want you to start fights, or go over the top machismo with this attraction

trigger. Remember Silverbacks walk the walk they don’t talk the talk. As a matter

of fact very few women, and I would argue not the ones you should desire to be

with, want to see you in a bar fight or having a severe case of road rage and getting

into a fist fight. Your body language should be enough to ward off most bold

Blackbacks.

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The best way to display leader of the troop attraction is through storytelling. Recall

some personal stories about situations—with family, at work, or on a trip where all

hell broke loose, but you remained calm throughout.

I am always reminded of the story former Mayor Rudolph Gulliani tells about his

dad’s greatest piece of advice that he drew upon during 911.

His dad told him in a crisis, become the calmest person in the room, even to the

point where people will look at you with concern for being so calm. In turn this will

calm them and you will rise to the top as the leader. I am pretty sure you don’t

have a story as compelling as that, but it doesn’t need to be.

Just make sure your stories illuminate the fact that you were the protector of the

troop in a stressful situation and you led the troop to safety. I remind my

Silverback students of the following truism: when women feel threatened or

vulnerable, they are naturally drawn toward men who represent safety and security,

and when you protect women unconditionally, they will find you incredibly sexy.

The third attaction trigger is being comfortable around women, especially

attractive women. I have spoken with many women as to why they find themselves

attracted to married men. Although it is sometimes difficult for them to identify

why, it has to do with the fact that married men must have some attractive qualities

or that woman wouldn’t have chosen them as a life partner.

It never ceases to amaze me how different men and women are. I mean,

personally, married women are the last ones I am interested in spending my time

on, there are way too many attractive single women out there to choose from. I

certainly don’t need to challenge another potential Silverback over his perceived

territory.

Surrounding yourself with attractive women is a great way to attract other

beautiful women.

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I strongly encourage you to have a few good looking women you are platonic

friends with. There are a few reasons for this, first you will be amazed at how much

you can learn about women simply by hanging out with them.

You will learn the qualities they look for in men as well as how sexual they really

are. Second, when you are out with them, you will literally have eyes on you that

you wouldn’t normally have if you were with a bunch of your guy friends.

Women will find you non-threatening and they will ask themselves what is it you

have that has these women find interesting about you. They will most likely assume

one of these women is dating you, so make sure you still advance and also make

sure you allude that these women are just friends. Having attractive women with

you in bars will create opportunities you may have never had.

The fourth attraction trigger is being emotionally unaffected which means your

internal sense of calm and composure is not affected by external circumstances. So

even if all hell breaks loose around you, you’re still able to feel good about yourself

and maintain control.

When you exploit the Emotionally Unaffected Attraction Trigger, it also shows

women -- most of whom have great BS detectors -- that you are free of artificiality.

In other words, you are sincere and genuine. Women find Emotionally Unaffected

men VERY attractive.

Remember what I said in Chapter One about how women LOVE to play head

games and test men?

Women test men from the start, just to see if they can throw a guy off-guard. Not

taking the bait isn't easy, but remaining Emotionally Unaffected -- especially when

you first meet a woman -- is essential to your success as a Silverback.

So how can you take advantage of the Emotionally Unaffected attraction trigger

when you first meet a desirable woman? First, do not be needy. I've met so many

would-be Silverbacks who ruin their own game by acting needy. These are great

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